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I lost the house. I lost most of the savings Andrew and I had built together. I lost friends who said things like, “I don’t want to be in the middle,” as if neutrality were a moral high ground instead of a convenient escape.
When Andrew and Susan announced their engagement, people reacted the way people always do when they don’t know where to put their discomfort. Some offered sympathy. Some offered advice.
But anger wasn’t what kept me awake at night.
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