I Am 87 Years Old: If Living Alone Becomes Difficult, Consider These Alternatives Before a Care Home

I explained that I was struggling with remembering my medication

I approached my neighbor, Laura, who works from home and has young children. I explained that I was struggling with remembering my medication. Instead of asking her to take over my life, I simply asked for a small, consistent check-in each morning.

In return, I offered what I still had to give—my time, attention, and willingness to help. That simple exchange became the foundation of something meaningful. Now she visits briefly each morning with coffee, and in those few minutes, I take my medication with confidence.